Topic Request - Sexual Compatibility 👀
Just listened to the episode that dropped today and wanted to send in a topic I would love to hear y’all talk about. What are your thoughts on sexual compatibility in a relationship? I’m a former casual dater trying to now date more seriously and this topic is becoming more difficult for me. I’m now waiting to have sex whereas before I didn’t mind sex on a first date lol. But with that has come the worry that I’ll start to like a guy and get invested and then when we finally do have sex it’s meh. I’ve been in a relationship before where we were not sexually compatible (didn’t like the same things and I ended up always having to do it how he liked it and felt like I was being used) and it effected various parts of our relationship in and out of the bedroom, so I fear that happening again. I don’t want to have sex too soon, but also don’t want to wait too long. What’s the sweet spot? And if I do really like a guy and we’re not quite sexually compatible, how do we work on that?
Lab partners to lovers?
I am currently a physical therapy student and I have a huge crush on my anatomy lab partner. I think he might like me back but I am not sure and making that move could bring a lot of complications because we are lab partners. What would you girls do in this situation? Should I go for it or wait for things to be less complicated or for him to make a move if that’s what he wants?